Ok, you wouldn't want to train with me based on one forum post. That pretty much tells me all I need to know, but...
I am totally respectful, ask anyone who actually knows me.
I'm not into bowing because it's not something I've ever done. I would bow if I was in a country where it was the normal thing rather than shaking hands etc. I would bow in a dojo if the instructor wanted people to. I don't think there is a need to force bowing though and I think that anything which is done because of a rule loses any sense of being respectful.
Foul language - it's just words. What people mean is more important than the words they use. I have told people not to swear before because kids were present. If it's just adults about, I really don't mind what people say.
Unwritten rules where I train are;
- be respectful to everyone
- train hard
- maintain a good standard of cleanliness
Other stuff is obvious like removing jewelry. I would count speaking to the instructor if starting late/leaving early under being respectful.
Cool, then I have misunderstood your post and it seems that your point was more about the non-necessity of having rules because people would anyway act in a responsible manneer which is a fair point...:D
Yeah, exactly. I don't want people behaving like idiots. I would happily actively tell someone to sort themselves out if necessary but I don't see the need to have specific rules beyond hygiene/safety.
Also, I have no issue with people who want to run clubs with all those rules. If I trained somewhere as a guest I would obviously follow the rules there.
Plenty of our judo guys bow when entering/exiting. I am more than happy for them to do it.
GB orlando have rules, but nothing crazy, BJJ is the main focus but they have Sessions for stand up & MMA.