I was talking to this Christian girl the other day. She said she's a devout Catholic but lives with her boyfriend. I then pointed out that if she was a devout Catholic why is she living with her boyfriend before they are married because Catholics don't believe in sex before marriage. She replied that they hadn't had sex yet. I was shocked and said something like "well that must be a bit shit, how do you resist the urges when you live with each other and sleep in the same bed?". She then said that aslong as they didn't actually have penetrative sex then it was ok. So things like oral sex and mutual masterbation are ok, just as long as actual "penis in vagina" sex is saved til after they wed, according to this girl and her bf.
Now to me this sounds a bit strange. Maybe I've got it all wrong but I doubt God would be sitting there in heaven watching them getting playful, jump out of his seat at the sight of them "sinning" and then think "phew it's ok. She's only sucking his nob". I mean it's not like it says in the bible "No sex before marriage but hand jobs are fair game" either.
So I said to her that those "other things" she was doing are actually sexual acts and so technically she was still having sex with her bf before marriage. I also said that she was just trying to get around the system and cheat. But now I feel a bit bad because I don't know if I was right or not. Maybe I'm wrong. What do you guys think?