i don't like these friend request things, i get about 20 a week. thing is, i don't want to pin myself down to being anyone's friend in case i decide to turn on them later. it would be awkward.
that said, there are people who i consider very serious enemies and i'm not likely to ever try and suddenly curry favour with these people.
can we set up a function so that we can send enemy requests?
'jim hates your guts and would like it to become a matter of public record that you and he are enemies. accept?'
'maybe on reflection that was a genuine grievance and not a gimmick. '